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Groom's
Proposal Story
At the
time, Marisa and I had been dating for almost 4 years. I had been saving
for the ring for 6 months and barely was able to get it before our upcoming
vacation. We had a trip planned with
my dad to Fiji. Though Marisa knew a proposal was coming,
I had her convinced a ring would not be ready before our trip. Her dad, Larry, had suggested I wrap the
ring in cloth, and keep it in my wallet during our travel. I was so nervous the entire plane rides;
constantly checking to insure I still had it; worried the x-ray machine
would detect it, and spoil the surprise.
The trip went fine, and so as I arrived, I unloaded the rock with my
dad into the safe in his room. They
saw it and thought it was beautiful!
We immediately took a day cruise the following morning, and I left
the ring in the safe, thinking later in the trip would be a better time to
propose.
The
next day we boarded a cruise ship, heading out for a 4-5 day cruise to the
Blue Lagoon (a perfect location I thought).
That night as the sun set, I thought I would propose to her on the
front of the cruise ship, right as the sun was setting. I got the ring from the safe in our room,
and asked her to take a walk with me along the side of the ship. We walked slowly, hand and hand, till we
got to the front of the boat. The
sun was setting, and it was the most beautiful sunset of the entire trip. We held and kissed each other as the
waves started splashing us slightly.
Right before I got down on my knee, she said she was getting too wet
from the waves. She walked off and I
tried calling her back, but she refused to return. Inside I laughed, and though, “I guess
now isn’t the right time.” Later
that night we had a wonderful time with the family, along with a champagne
toast among the guests.
The
next day after our morning activities we landed on the island of Yasawa-I-Rara. Before going ashore, I grabbed the ring
from the safe again, and had to put it in my swimming trunks. The island was a perfect setting for a
proposal! Lush palm trees,
surrounded by beautiful blue waters.
We had plenty of free time to ourselves. Some went snorkeling, others tanned on
the beach. With the ring in my
shorts, I didn’t want to snorkel until I had proposed; for fear that I
might lose it. By this point I was
thinking, “I don’t wanna be responsible for this
thing anymore… lol!” So I said, “Babe let’s take a walk first,
I don’t feel good.” And actually I
didn’t feel good due to a 24 hour virus I had gotten. So it was a perfect excuse to get away
from the crowds, because everyone went snorkeling right away. We walked along the beach, hand in hand,
as the butterflies in my stomach began a flapping frenzy. Marisa wanted to walk in the water, but I
was set on getting closer to the palm trees, so that we would be out of
sight from everyone. We let go of
each other and walked separately for a hundred yards or so. Then I called to her and said, “Babe come
check this out!” She said, “No I
don’t wanna go up there!” I thought…. “Not again…” I said again, “Babe, just come take a
look at this!” Again she refused. I guess 3rd times a
charm. I said again, “Babe just come
here. Please. I wanna show
you something!” She laughed and as
she headed my way she said, “You’re silly!”
As she got closer I got down on one knee. “Not so silly now is it? lol” I thought.
I think she said something like, “You brought it?” but I was to busy
going over what I was gonna say. I said, “Marisa Joy Archuleta, I love you
with all my heart, will you marry me?”
I’m paraphrasing because I was so nervous; I was almost absent
minded as I spoke. But I remember a
clear as day what she said next. She
said, “PUT IT ON ME!” as she stuck her finger out toward me. I said, “Is that a yes?” And she said, “YES! PUT IT ON ME!!!” Then we walked off and took
pictures. Lastly, my step-mom
Jennifer walked back with us to take pictures at the spot I proposed.
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